Bayelsa State Deputy Governor, Dr. Peter Akpe, has warned women against placing high expectations on political gain, urging them to foster effective relationships and capacity development.
Akpe also charged women to champion the course for a better society through social change.
He harped on the need for value reorientation and adherence to standards by the citizenry both in their private and public life to ensure sustainable progress in society.
The deputy governor gave this charge when he received a delegation of the Diri/Akpe Women Support Group from Bayelsa West Senatorial District, on a solidarity visit to his office in Government House, Yenagoa.
He acknowledged the critical role women play in nation building, noted that their active involvement in behavioural change communication at the family, community, state and national levels would go a long way in addressing insecurity, crimes and other challenges facing the country.
His words: “As women and mothers, we appreciate the role you play in society. You birth today for tomorrow. And so, we all need to be agent of social engineering. Let’s be intentional about issues such as high expectations and entitlement mentality which is a big problem.
“Today, we hardly talk about contentment, which is a great value. Societies that are guided by values have standardized expectations, and I think that is why they are making more progress.
“So as mothers, I really want you to take yourselves to those foundations and talk about them so that people will be content with what they have and work hard, following standards and acceptable norms.
Akpe who received the Diri/Akpe Support Group in company of his wife, Dr Favour Akpe, expressed gratitude to the women for the visit, describing the formation of the group as thoughtful and meaningful.
He, however, advised them not to place high expectations for political gains as their core objective, but rather see the group as a veritable platform to foster effective relationships and capacity development.
While cautioning against irrational political decision making, Akpe noted that, most often than not, politicians who indulge in such acts end up rendering themselves irrelevant in the scheme of things.
The deputy governor also urged the women to be patient and support their leaders as good party women to work towards actualizing the aspirational objectives of the group.
“If you want to have a long lasting team, then don’t build it totally on political grounds and high expectations. That will not take us far. But build it on the foundation of relationship.
“Support one another because not everybody will lead at the same time. Today, some of you are sitting at the far back. But tomorrow you may be the one sitting in front. As you have started, expand your coast in not just politics but also in relationships.
“For me, politics is just one part of our lives. But when you relate well with people, politics and political decisions become easy. You should be patient because those who take irrational decisions in politics, usually run out of their breakthrough, he added.
Speaking on behalf of the women group, the leader, Chief Ebizi Ndiomu-Brown, pledged solidarity to the deputy governor and the Assured Prosperity administration under the leadership of the governor, Senator Douye Diri.
Ndiomu-Brown, who is also the Member representing Sagbama Constituency Three in the State House of Assembly, assured that the support group would work closely with others to ensure landslide victory for the All Progressives Congress (APC) in the 2027 elections.
Among personalities present during the visit were the Chairman, Ekeremor Rural Development Authority, Mrs Deme Pamosoo, her Tarakiri RDA counterpart, Mrs Ann Enebimoere Asamkpere, the Chairman, Bayelsa State Teachers Training, Registration and Certification Board, High Chief Stella Ugolo.
Others were former Women Affairs Commissioner, Mrs Martha Jenakumo and one-time Commissioner for Education, Mrs Sylvia Sylvia Fuludu Brigidi, one-time Commissioner for Special Duties (Bayelsa West)/One-time State PDP Woman Leader, Hon. Christie Ebbeli.
